Is it really possible to tell are Russian women good mothers based solely on where they come from? Perhaps there is a line of thought that increases the chances that she will make a good mother, but there are never any guarantees when it comes to dealing with the human race.
Most Russian women are looking for several things when they agree to a marriage to a Western man. They want to know that they can live and love freely and that they will be a part of a relationship that is meaningful and positive. They may wish to further some of their personal opportunities before deciding they definitely want to have children with you.
When you start interviewing Russian brides, make sure you are clear on your feelings about children. She may not see children in the picture until several years down the road. In your excitement to have everything you've ever wanted you may very well be ready for children two weeks after she arrives in your home.
Life requires a bit of flexibility, especially when your wife has left everything she knows behind. Children can be a huge benefit to your relationship, but only after your relationship has been well established. It is impossible to tell based solely on her country of origin whether or not she will make a good mother.
Giving your new wife a little time to adjust, some freedom to explore her options, and the chance to create a strong and loving relationship with you before bringing children into the picture is always best. Of course, if you or she already has a child there is more to the question than mere hopefulness. It becomes a necessity.
If you are hoping that your Russian wife will want to start having children you need to make sure that you discuss this thoroughly during visits and chat sessions. Having children is nothing to be entered into lightly and it is possible that there will be some disagreements regarding the timing of having children.
If you want a Russian woman to make a good mother you have to allow her to explore her opportunities here in the States. She may want children, but she may also want a career or an educational opportunity that she didn't have the chance for in Russia.
You also want to ensure that in order for Russian women to make good mothers they are freely operating within your home. Having a family with you should be a choice. Just as any other woman would have the choice when it was the right time, you have to respect her body enough to know that she has the power to choose this freely as well.
Most Russian women are looking for several things when they agree to a marriage to a Western man. They want to know that they can live and love freely and that they will be a part of a relationship that is meaningful and positive. They may wish to further some of their personal opportunities before deciding they definitely want to have children with you.
When you start interviewing Russian brides, make sure you are clear on your feelings about children. She may not see children in the picture until several years down the road. In your excitement to have everything you've ever wanted you may very well be ready for children two weeks after she arrives in your home.
Life requires a bit of flexibility, especially when your wife has left everything she knows behind. Children can be a huge benefit to your relationship, but only after your relationship has been well established. It is impossible to tell based solely on her country of origin whether or not she will make a good mother.
Giving your new wife a little time to adjust, some freedom to explore her options, and the chance to create a strong and loving relationship with you before bringing children into the picture is always best. Of course, if you or she already has a child there is more to the question than mere hopefulness. It becomes a necessity.
If you are hoping that your Russian wife will want to start having children you need to make sure that you discuss this thoroughly during visits and chat sessions. Having children is nothing to be entered into lightly and it is possible that there will be some disagreements regarding the timing of having children.
If you want a Russian woman to make a good mother you have to allow her to explore her opportunities here in the States. She may want children, but she may also want a career or an educational opportunity that she didn't have the chance for in Russia.
You also want to ensure that in order for Russian women to make good mothers they are freely operating within your home. Having a family with you should be a choice. Just as any other woman would have the choice when it was the right time, you have to respect her body enough to know that she has the power to choose this freely as well.
About the Author:
Mark De Schutter is the owner of a Russian dating site called "Russian Dating Live". This is a web dating service for men who would like to get in contact with Russian ladies who are interested about marriage to Western men.
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